Aussie Instant Freeze Gel vs Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Shine Conditioner

“The Aussie gel is pretty thick and heavy, and at least right now it may be a bit much for your hair. I'd try experimenting with some lighter options (maybe just cut that out and try it with the cream and mousse, or even just the mousse on its own), and see what you get. I'd focus on a 'less is more' mindset while you figure your hair out - heavier products can weigh waves down, and having a lot of products can make it hard to figure out what is doing what for your hair. Styling using a brush (denman and bounce curl are two popular ones) can also help with frizz, although as others have said, frizz is also just a part of curly/wavy hair. Watching a few videos might help you get some ideas for improving definition.”

“I think it depends on hair porosity. I have really low porosity hair and shea moisture was too heavy for my hair also. I actually use regular shampoo/conditioner (non curly specific) and use a lightweight mousse and gel and that works best. Doesn't sound like that would necessarily mirror OP's foster daughter's needs but I think porosity is a key component of figuring out someone's hair needs and what kinds of products it can cope with.”